So I've got a little experience in "losing" my job. Laid off, furloughed, rehired, resigned (and walked out), new job, laid off.
Of course I didn't lose one of those jobs...I know right where they are. I just can't or won't go back to them.
Fortunately for me, I've made a lot of good friends online. Very supportive friends. It makes "losing" a job that much easier.
Of course there's more to it...the effect it has on the family.
Kate...she doesn't understand yet. She just smiles and laughs and makes everything go away.
LC, however, is starting to grasp it. He doesn't say anything to me, but he does say stuff to his mother.
"Are we going to have to move back to Gainesville?"
"Is poppa going to pay our bills for us?"
You know...fun stuff like that.
Strangely, not to long ago he was always asking me to fire myself so I could be home all the time (it's the only way I get a vacation these days).
And then there's the wife, the lovely woman who agreed to marry me (yikes!) and has supported me through all of this. Without her, I could not have made it as far as I have.
When we met, we were polar opposites. I was a bit on the timid side and she...well, she doesn't have much of a filter. A perfect match!
Over time I have found my voice and she has muted hers (only a little). We're meeting somewhere in the middle (at least that's what I tell myself).
Kris does not work. She held LC in her hands and told me she didn't want to go back to work. I couldn't argue. Although she did work briefly but was let go because LC had an ear infection and needed medical attention. We didn't fight it. She's a stay-at-home mom, and we like it that way. She's been able to help Kate out with doctor visits, physical therapy, speech therapy, HGH injections...the list goes on and on.
Since she doesn't work, she feels, at times, out of control. When I "lose" my job, that feeling is heightened.
Not really sure what the point of this was...it's not to feel sorry for me, that's for sure. Just a warning to those out there in a similar situation. It doesn't effect just you...it effects your entire family (I haven't even mentioned my parents, or Kris' parents).
The only advice I can give to help alleviate this is:
1. Have enough money in the bank to weather the storm
2. ...OK, just 1.